Narcissists Blaming You

Covert narcissists are skilled at shifting the blame onto others. They twist events and distort facts to make it appear as though they are the innocent party and you are at fault. By doing so, they avoid taking responsibility for their actions or any negative consequences that may arise. They can be the good guy. The good parent to impress friends, children, family, strangers. It is a clever sly disguise but nothing to do with who you are. What your values are.

Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic employed by narcissists and other toxic individuals to gain control over their victims. It includes siblings, spouses, children, friends. It involves distorting the victim’s perception of reality, making them doubt their own thoughts, feelings, and memories. Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse with severe and long-lasting effects on the your mental well-being.

Narcissists go to great lengths to maintain their power and dominance over others, including distorting reality and undermining the victim’s confidence.