Feeling Safe With Someone

Feeling safe with someone is about more than just physical and emotional security—it’s about finding a sanctuary where you can truly be yourself without fear or reservation. It’s a journey of self-discovery and mutual acceptance that deepens the bonds of love and intimacy.
When you have found someone with whom you feel safe, cherish them and nurture your connection with care and gratitude.

The Avoidant’s Fear of Losing Themselves

Symptoms associated with avoidant personality disorder (AVPD) include social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, hypersensitivity to negative feedback and evaluation, fear of rejection, avoidance of any activities that require substantial personal interaction, and reluctance to take risks or get involved in

Calming Box Listening Holding Space

The goal is to move beyond the habit of making every interaction about ourselves. It’s about recognizing the value in the other person’s experiences and perspectives. Listening actively is a powerful way to build connections and bridge gaps, fostering a deeper understanding of one another.

Cultivating Safety and Effective Communication With Your Conscious Brain.

People are busy trying to figure out what makes them anxious and then take that out of their life thinking they can remove it and everything will be fine but it’s not effective.

Safety is a critical aspect of overall well-being, and it’s important to recognize and respond to the signals our body sends us. It’s also essential to keep growing our capacity.

The Effectiveness of Talk Therapy

Why talk therapy is not for everyone. Complex trauma results in a range of symptoms that extend beyond cognitive understanding and verbal expression.

You could never express yourself. Why would you know how to now?

This expectation from others means they had the privilege of growing up being able to communicate. To express themselves. Someone listened to them. Their opinions and their feelings mattered.